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100 Raunchy And Sexy Would You Rather Questions

List of rauncy and sexy 'would you rather' questions to ask your boyfriend or girlfriend to *really* get to know him or her (warning NSFW). Read more ⇣
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Written By Erica
I'm Erica. I love to help people in their relationships and spiritual lives. I've been through a lot of ups and downs, and I want to share my insights with you.
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Sex is a subject that people don’t always want to talk about, but it’s important to be open with your partner and ask what they like and don’t like.

That’s why Would You Rather questions about sex can be fun and help you learn more about your partner.

These 100 questions are also a great way to break the ice and get comfortable talking about things that might make you blush.

You can use these on your next date night or whenever you please!

P.S. you should also check out my ‘would you rather’ questions for adults and couples.

50 Sexy Would You Rather Questions for Boyfriends

  1. Would you rather shower together and then have sex, or start having sex right away and then shower together later?
  2. Would you rather: have a sexual relationship with someone you truly love and adore, but who doesn’t share your feelings, or have a sexual relationship with someone who feels the same way about you, but who annoys you when they talk?
  3. Would you rather have sex in the morning or at night?
  4. Would you rather have sex with the lights on or off?
  5. Would you rather give or receive oral sex?
  6. Would you rather try role-playing for the first time, or use dirty talk for the first time?
  7. Would you rather stay home and watch a movie, or go out to dinner and a movie together?
  8. Would you rather have sex with someone who is bad at kissing, or someone who is bad at foreplay?
  9. Would you rather never have oral sex again or never have penetrative sex again?
  10. Would you rather try hot wax play or blindfold play?
  11. Would you rather sex be only oral every day or nothing except for anal once a month?
  12. Would you rather have a great sex life but not get along well, or get along great but rarely have sex?
  13. Would you rather lick every inch of my body or rub every inch with massage oil?
  14. Would you rather try something new in bed tonight or go for one of our favorites?
  15. Would you rather watch porn together or make porn together?
  16. Would you rather bring in a friend for a threesome or a random person?
  17. Would you rather give me a sensual massage or feed me in a sensual way?
  18. Would you rather have me send you nudes in the morning or at night?
  19. Would you rather give or receive a lap dance?
  20. Would you rather masturbate to your favorite TV show or your favorite movie?
  21. Would you rather have no sex forever or no emotional conversations forever?
  22. Would you rather never get drunk with your partner or get drunk with your partner every single weekend?
  23. Would you rather make out at the movies or in the back seat of my car?
  24. Would you rather get a massage with peanut butter or maple syrup?
  25. Would you rather take a body shot off of me, or have me take a body shot off of you?
  26. Would you rather sweat profusely in the bedroom or have an insatiable dry mouth?
  27. Would you rather have your hair pulled, or have your back scratched?
  28. Would you rather have your girl dress as a sexy librarian or an exotic dancer?
  29. Would you rather accidentally send a dirty text to your boss or a sexy voicemail to your mom?
  30. Would you rather see me in a short skirt or in a short skirt at the top of the staircase?
  31. Would you rather have me dominate you or would you rather dominate me?
  32. Would you rather sleep naked or sleep with your clothes on?
  33. Would you rather get freaky with me in the pool or on the trampoline?
  34. Would you prefer to go to a midnight showing of an R-rated movie or be home all night watching reruns of “Friends”?
  35. Would you rather meet my parents before we started dating or wait until after we had been together for 6 months?
  36. Would you rather not have sex for a year or have sex twice daily for the rest of your life?
  37. Would you rather find out that I’m terrible in bed or find out that I’ve never been faithful to you?
  38. Would you rather have a threesome with two people of the same sex or one person of the opposite sex?
  39. Would you rather have sex in public or role play in private?
  40. Would you rather have with me the best sex of your life or an incredible kiss?
  41. Would you rather have a threesome with two strippers or two librarians?
  42. Would you rather give the best massage ever or the best kiss ever?
  43. Would you rather get a lap dance from me or watch me get one from a guy?
  44. Would you rather spank me for doing something wrong, or ask me to spank you for doing something wrong?
  45. Would you rather watch me masturbate alone, or join me in bed as I touch myself?
  46. Would you rather whisper sweet nothings in my ear, or talk dirty to me all night long?
  47. Would you rather be too big to fit inside your woman or too small that she has difficulty feeling anything?
  48. Would you rather give an oral every single time you make love to your girlfriend, or let her only give an oral every single time?
  49. Would you rather be on top so you can control the speed and depth of penetration, or do you want her to be on top so she can control the action?
  50. Would you rather have a threesome with your girl and another girl of her choice, or with your girl and another guy of her choice?

50 Sexy Would You Rather Questions for Girlfriends

  1. Would you rather have a partner who is great in bed but bad at cuddling, or a partner who is great at cuddling but bad in bed?
  2. Would you rather have sex in a bathroom at a party or in a closet at work?
  3. Would you rather be watched having sex by the elderly or by children?
  4. Would you rather have sex with a stranger for money or with someone you know for free?
  5. Would you rather be a porn star or work at a strip club?
  6. Would you rather give up oral sex or masturbation for the rest of your life?
  7. Would you rather only be able to whisper or scream at the top of your lungs in the bedroom?
  8. Would you rather be able to have an orgasm any time you wanted or orgasm every time you have sex with me?
  9. Would you rather watch porn with your partner or go to a sex party with them?
  10. Would you rather sexually satisfy just yourself or just your partner, but never both at the same time?
  11. Would you rather have a partner who is bad at foreplay but good at the actual act or the opposite?
  12. Would you rather not be able to touch your partner while having sex or no kissing?
  13. Would you rather have your partner be a virgin or a sex god?
  14. Would you rather have your parents walk in on you having sex or your ex?
  15. Would you rather have a threesome with me and another guy, or with me and another girl?
  16. Would you rather be tied up during sex, or do the tying?
  17. Would you rather date someone who is bad at sex but loves to do it often, or someone who is great at sex but only wants to do it once a month?
  18. Would you rather have sex with someone who is very attractive but horrible in bed, or someone who is not very attractive but great in bed?
  19. Would you rather be able to see a couple having sex or hear them?
  20. Would you rather have every sexual experience of your life recorded and posted online for your friends and family to see, or never experience an orgasm again?
  21. Would you rather be expected to always initiate sex or never initiate sex?
  22. Would you rather be stuck with only foreplay for the rest of your life, or only intercourse for the rest of your life?
  23. Would you rather date someone who couldn’t speak at all during sex, or someone who couldn’t stop talking during sex?
  24. Would you rather people you know see you naked or strangers see you naked?
  25. Would you rather be blindfolded or be the one wearing a blindfold?
  26. Would you rather not have any fantasies for the rest of your life or never reach orgasm again for the rest of your life?
  27. Would you rather be 100% sure that your partner is sexually satisfied or that they truly love you?
  28. Would you rather be a virgin for the rest of your life or have sex with someone you don’t find attractive?
  29. Would you rather have sex in public or talk dirty in public?
  30. Would you rather watch porn or make a porn video yourself?
  31. Would you rather use your hands or use a toy?
  32. Would you rather be able to only have sex standing up or lying down?
  33. Would you rather have sex for 15 minutes straight or for 8 hours with breaks?
  34. Would you rather be into BDSM (bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism) play or not be into it at all?
  35. Would you rather watch porn alone or with a partner?
  36. Would you rather have nonstop orgasms for the next 12 hours or never have an orgasm again?
  37. Would you rather be very hairy in person but smooth down there or be very smooth all over but get a really weird landing strip down there?
  38. Would you rather have no sex drive and be celibate forever or be truly insatiable and never get enough?
  39. Would you rather get off to bad porn that matches your kink perfectly or to good porn that doesn’t?
  40. Would you rather have sex with someone who never orgasms or someone who orgasms too quickly?
  41. Would you rather forego sex for a year or give up your favorite food for a year?
  42. Would you rather be able to orgasm from only oral or from only anal?
  43. Would you rather have sex with someone who is way too loud or someone who is way too quiet?
  44. Would you rather be completely satisfied with your sex life but be very unsatisfied in other parts of your life, or would you rather be completely satisfied in every part of your life except for the sex?
  45. Would you rather be able to watch yourself have sex or be invisible during sex?
  46. Would you rather have 30 minutes of wild, amazing sex or never have sex again?
  47. Would you rather give up oral sex or intercourse?
  48. Would you rather watch porn or read erotica?
  49. Would you rather have sex with the lights on or in total darkness?
  50. Would you rather be caught having sex by your children or by your neighbors?

Conclusion

Feel free to use these questions to deepen your connection and intimacy with your partner, or just have some laughs about it.

When you mix these questions with a drinking game, you’re guaranteed to have some fun with your partner!

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