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140 Flirty Truth or Dare Questions Over Text

Away from your boyfriend or girlfriend?Then spice up your conversation by playing flirty truth or dare questions over text. Read more ⇣
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Written By Erica
I'm Erica. I love to help people in their relationships and spiritual lives. I've been through a lot of ups and downs, and I want to share my insights with you.
Flirty Truth or Dare Questions Over Text

If you’re texting with your crush or even a significant other, you must already know that texting can easily become dull and boring. 

To prevent this from happening and reignite the spark, why not play a game of truth or dare over text, but in a flirty way?

If you’re really interested in someone, using flirty questions over text is the best way to let them know how you feel without being too forward or obvious about it. 

I’ve come up with 140 flirty truth or dare questions for texting. You should be able to use this to seduce your crush or partner, or break the ice in your relationship!

60 Flirty Truth Questions Over Text

  1. What is your sexual fantasy?
  2. Have you ever gotten naked in front of a mirror?
  3. If I asked you to make a sexy video of yourself, would you do it?
  4. Do you like dirty talk?
  5. Do you like your hair pulled during sex?
  6. What is your favorite part about a guy or girl?
  7. What is your definition of intimacy?
  8. Have you ever gone commando?
  9. What’s your main romantic fantasy? 
  10. What’s your favorite body part on yourself? On your partner?
  11. How would you rate my looks on a scale of 1 to 10? 
  12. Have you ever cheated on someone before? Why?
  13. Do you secretly enjoy getting dominated in bed? 
  14. Have you ever seen me nude in a dream? Describe what we did, word by word.  
  15. Have you ever had an exciting dream about me?
  16. What’s the biggest turn-on to you while making out with someone?   
  17. Have you ever had sexual fantasies about me?
  18. What’s something I did that you didn’t expect?
  19. Would you take a shower with me?
  20. Did you ever have a crush on a teacher?
  21. What is one thing that gets you hot and bothered every time?
  22. Do you have any interesting fetishes?
  23. Do you enjoy it when I kiss on your neck?
  24. What’s the most romantic thing you’ve ever done, or that someone has done for you?
  25. What’s something you find sexy that you think most other people don’t?
  26. What did you think of me when you first met me?
  27. Do you trim down there?
  28. Did you ever have a crush on a teacher?
  29. Has anyone accidentally seen you naked?
  30. What’s the farthest you’ve gone on a first date?
  31. If I went through your room, what would I be shocked to find?
  32. If you were here right now, what would you want to do?
  33. Have you skinny-dipped in a pool?
  34. What is your opinion of hickies?
  35. What’s something that you always wanted to say to me but couldn’t? 
  36. Have you ever flashed someone?
  37. What color underwear are you wearing right now?
  38. What is the most embarrassing gift you have ever gotten?
  39. Have you ever practiced kissing?
  40. Do you like your bed or couch for getting down?
  41. What’s the craziest sexual experience you’ve ever had?
  42. Where is your favorite place to be kissed?
  43. Would you rather send me a selfie with or without clothes?
  44. Describe your ideal kiss and how would you make it unforgettable for me?
  45. How do you feel about cuddling?
  46. Send me the most embarrassing photo that you have in your gallery.
  47. How many rounds can you go?
  48. Tell me something naughty you want to do with me.
  49. Who is the best kisser you have ever kissed in your life?
  50. How much do you admire your body in the mirror?
  51. What is the one thing when done often rekindles the spark between us?
  52. What is your favorite place on your body you’d prefer I kiss more?
  53. Has anyone you have lots of respect for caught you doing something embarrassing and nasty? When was that and what was it?
  54. What is the one thing that most people feel and think you will never but you have done?
  55. What do you feel every time I am near you?
  56. Who is the worst kisser you have ever kissed in your life?
  57. At what age did you first kiss? What happened on that day and what was it like back then?
  58. What are the top 2 turn-ons from anyone you date?
  59. What physical features on your body do you get complimented the most?
  60. Have you ever made out with a different person while in a relationship? How did it end up?

80 Flirty Dare Questions Over Text

  1. Wear a “Kiss me…It’s my Birthday” board over your neck for 20 minutes.
  2. Someone has to lick peanut butter, chocolate sauce, or whipped cream off your finger, cheek, or somewhere of their choice.
  3. Do 20 pushups and shout my name with each one.
  4. Tell an erotic story to a photo of a celebrity.
  5. Lick your own lips in a sexy way for 30 seconds.
  6. Explain exactly what turns you on about your favorite body part.
  7. Put on the most flirtatious outfit you have and send me a picture of you in that outfit!
  8. Send me a picture of what you are wearing now.
  9. Give yourself a pedicure, take a picture and then send it to me!
  10. Take a video of you trying to imitate Shakira’s dance in the song Hips Don’t Lie and send it to me.
  11. Boldly confess one of your deepest desires but don’t reveal anything about yourself.
  12. Do a strip dance while singing any song of your choice, record it and send it to me!
  13. Send the steamiest picture that you have on your phone.
  14. Send me a pic or video of you shirtless.
  15. Send me a pic of you wearing the least clothes on you right now.
  16. Describe the sexiest dream you’ve had about me.
  17. Eat a popsicle as seductively as you can and send me a video of it.
  18. Undo your pants with one hand.
  19. Write something embarrassing somewhere on your body (that can be hidden with clothing) with a permanent marker.
  20. Talk to your hand like you’re making a game plan to sleep with someone else who is in the room.
  21. Show me how you like to be kissed on your hand over FaceTime.
  22. Write my name on your chest and send me the picture
  23. Go live on Facebook for 4 minutes doing the Macarena.
  24. Peel a potato/banana with your teeth.
  25. Vacuum your bedroom in your underwear and send me a video.
  26. Send me a screenshot of your recent searches.
  27. Text me the naughtiest thing that you can think of.
  28. Search for the naughtiest thing that you can think of.
  29. Cover a part of your body with melted chocolate and send me a photo afterward.
  30. Jump in the shower with your clothes on over FaceTime.
  31. Take your best thirst trap photo, post it on social media, and tag me.
  32. Write my name on your body and then send me a pic.
  33. Hit on me like you don’t know me.
  34. Get me excited by texting a single word.
  35. Pick up a random book and read it in the most seductive voice you can manage.
  36. Make a video of yourself dancing a sexy dance and send it over.
  37. Lick your own lips in a sexy way for 30 seconds.
  38. Describe what you would do if I was there with you.
  39. Take a selfie of your eyes with the s*xiest pose and send it to me.
  40. Write me a short love poem and send it to me.
  41. Pretend you are drunk and you are trying to convince me to come home with you.
  42. Sing a song that you had previously made love to.
  43. You have one minute to change into the hottest outfit you have.
  44. Send me a pic of your favorite (non-X-rated) body part.
  45. Change your Facebook status to “Feeling horny.”
  46. Demonstrate how to put a condom on using a banana.
  47. You have to leave an R-rated voicemail for an ex.
  48. Kiss a pillow for two straight minutes.
  49. Send a dirty meme to a random person in your phone.
  50. Send a dirty text using only emojis to your best friend.
  51. Go into the kitchen and dress yourself up in things that you find.
  52. Wear your underwear on your head for five minutes.
  53. Seductively eat a banana.
  54. Pole dance with an imaginary pole.
  55. Send a sexy text to the 20th person in your contact list.
  56. Make your “O” face.
  57. Reenact your special move.
  58. Make out with your pillow for 10 seconds.
  59. Act out the last time you did it.
  60. Act out the first time you did it.
  61. Do a sexy dance with a broom.
  62. Reenact the opposite gender in bed.
  63. Suck your finger passionately for 15 seconds.
  64. Pretend you’re giving a formal presentation about a detailed summary of how you like it in bed.
  65. Try to take off your underwear/bra without flashing.
  66. Give your best “ready for you” face.
  67. Incorporate a towel into a seductive dance.
  68. Seductively shave one of your legs.
  69. Fake an orgasm.
  70. Crawl on the ground seductively.
  71. Give the closest thing to your left a passionate kiss.
  72. Make out with yourself in the mirror.
  73. Give a speech like you’re hitting on someone.
  74. Pretend you’re doing the deed with the closest thing to your right.
  75. Demonstrate how to put a protection on and send it as a video.
  76. Put on your sexiest song and catwalk and send it as a video.
  77. Grind on a pillow for 20 seconds.
  78. Change your Facebook status to “single and ready to mingle” or “ready for head tonight”
  79. Text your ex and ask if there’s anything you can improve on in bed.
  80. In a video, demonstrate the most flexible position you can do.


Flirty truth or dare questions over text are also great for getting to know someone better by asking them random questions that they might not normally answer in person. 

It gives them a chance to open up to you, and maybe even reveal some secrets they wouldn’t normally tell anyone else.

You can use these questions to ask your crush, girlfriend or boyfriend, or even just a friend!

You don’t have to be a skilled flirt to ask these questions, just be yourself and be honest in your answers.

You should also check out my truth or dare questions for boyfriends, and girlfriends.

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